Approval…And.. Acceptance

A mother wished her first born was a son

The dad wanted a ruler for his reign

The girl thought the hatred in their eyes was all a part of a game 

The winner claiming the throne to the terrain

The prize that she really wanted was to be daddy’s lil girl again 


We all are trying to fit into the puzzle called life. Constantly trying to be accepted …to get that special someone’s approval. We change who we really are to get accepted by society..friends and even our family. 

Now let me ask you something. The parents that gave birth to you should be able to accept you for who you are. The friends who claim to love you should definitely be able to respect your choices and decisions without asking any questions. The society that displays banners suggesting equality for all should be able to accept you for who you are. 

This world will constantly tell to change yourself to fit in. But the real gems are the ones who break their puzzle in their own significant way and showcase their inner sparkle. Do  NOT search for people’s approval because who are they to tell you to follow the rulebook. These rules of the society were made by people so they can be broken by people too. 

So my lil sparkles exceed your limits and realise that you don’t need to be a part of the game to be the winner. The throne was …is and always will be yours as long as you know where your kingdom lies 💕
Lots of love 

Sparklingyours

-N💕

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I’m a proud klutz 

Ello sparkles ​​In the seventeen years that I have been alive , I have learned a few things about myself. One of them being that I’m a klutz. I’m a silly soul who is always the cause of laughter if not the source…I’m usually up for a joke..I fall often even when I’m just walking…and I have screwed up a million times. 

Right now while writing this blog post with a tissue injury in my arm I have also learned that jumping without any reason in your own house is not safe too. But the thing that I was scared about all my life was not the times I fell or the times I have cried. It has always been if I’ll be able to get up. I was really afraid that someday I’ll royally screw up. Not just my arm or leg but my life. Will I be able to get out of the shadow of my father and be a sprinkle of sparkle by myself? 

But now I know I don’t need to try so hard. Like when I fall I always can get back on my feet and take care of myself , the same way I have myself when I mess up. Sometimes we need X-rays to determine the internal damage…medicines to fix the disease. Similarly I have friends to help me estimate the damage and their love to heal me when I break. I’ll never suffer alone because I’ll always have a few gems to rely on. 

So now I’m not worried about screwing up my life. I have family, friends and myself to take me through my clumsiness…to never leave me alone and most importantly to believe in myself. 
The conclusion is im a proud klutz. I’m not afraid to make mistakes. I’m not scared of screwing up. I have accepted that I will fall often but I do have the strength to get back up. You should too. 

So my lil sparkles instead of being scared to mess up …be BOLD and live your life cause there will always be people who you can rely on to help you shine your sparkle. 
Lots of love 
Sparklinglyyours 

-N❤️

Shopping for love

Ello lil sparkles !!

Everyone out there has gone shopping once in their life time. I have gone a thousand times myself. One thing I always noticed is that it takes time to find what you really want. But on some lucky days you might enter a store and within minutes you might find your perfect match. The right colour…the right size ….the perfect fitting…and most importantly the perfect prize. 

On most of the days , when the shopping gods are not smiling at you it might take you ages to find an item that checks all your requirements. Sometimes you might not find anything at all. But the next time you come , you might get a few good options from which you could chose a great one. 

The point is when we are spending our money we are cautious to find something so perfect. You do NOT want to buy a size too big , or too small Gucci shoes cause well that would be a causality wouldn’t it? We wait …we think …we judge…finally we choose.

So how are we so careless when it comes to spending ourselves. When it comes to giving up our mind ….our soul…our body…our existence to a certain significant other WHY are we in a haste? Your sparkle is much more important than that Channel dress or that Prada scarf. So give your self twice the thought when it comes to selling yourself to someone. 

A good product is a best friend. Its loyal … it’s worth the price…it adds to your beauty and most importantly it doesn’t give up on you when you need it the most. So find someone who is your best friend. Who is worth your time. Who adds to your sparkle but never dulls it…and most importantly NEVER gives up on you. 

So my lil sparkles I hope you all find true love. Some might find it as soon as they enter the world. Others might try a few shoes before finding their knight in shining armour. But many will find them with patience and trust me its worth the wait. 

All the love 
Sparklinglyyours

-N❤️
Thanks to a reader who asked me to write about choices when it comes to love. Hope I touched your heart ☺️