The missing spark

Ello lovelies ,

As I’m writing this blog post I just finished my tuition physics test. So as any normal person would I studied the whole day yesterday or atleast did my best at it. I mean there’s only a few things you can do when Newton plays soccer with electrons in your head. 
You could force some more information in your head , stuff your face with food or do what I did binge watch the last episodes of a show you kept pending. Personally I love Rom-coms…sit shows and recently developed taste in crime-mystery. (That somehow sounded so poised in my head )
The Missing 2 was something I heard so many people rave about so obviously I joined the party and watched it. The show literally blew my mind. Like the same feeling I had when I realised that Trump is the president of United States x 100. Ya lost a few brain cells but gained a million soul cells 
Without giving any spoilers the show is about how little girls who were abducted and lost everything. Her childhood , education, love from her parents, her sibling , friends, her dignity and virginity. All those things that is a birthright of every person out there. 

I realised how easily I take my choices for granted. My parents , I love them to bits. But do I appreciate them as much as I would if I was taken? Food and a good place to live. That girl was striped off everything this universe ever owned her just because another man thought it could be a source of enjoyment. If you think this is fiction I would like to tell you it’s not. 
1000s of girls are deprived of their choices so make yours carefully. Sex is something which we casually joke about is being used as a source of abuse. Losing it to someone who is not your choice is not something any person should have to face. 
I salute anyone who has survived any kind of assault or deprivation of choice. We all were born with our own sparkle and some unfortunate people had theirs stolen. So it’s our duty to shower them with glitter cause these faces are the ones that need to glow. 

 People often wondered , even asked her why she lived in a world of black and white.

She wished they saw how filling them with different hues of her own was more beautiful than living in a world of fake colours. 💕

Love you allllll ❤🖤❤🖤

Sparklinglyyours 

-N

Email: sparklinglyyours@gmail.com
Twitter: @sparklyyours
*******these thoughts are my personal opinion and is not intended to offend anyone ****

Lonely love

Be careful with who u give parts of your heart and your trust. Because your giving them the power to crush your heart when it’s already quite broken. 

-N✨
L. O. V. E. Four letters one syllable that can make Or break a person. It’s like oxygen you need it to survive no matter how much you deny it. Especially when Valentine’s Day is round the corner this four letter word becomes a game. 

A business one for eateries and novelty shops , a fun one for youngsters,a serious one for parents and life for the old. Personally I think Valentine’s Day is a tad bit overrated. Do we really need a day to show our significant other how much we care for them. I might sound so predictable (I mean I’m not above a few gifts and cupcakes my self BUT wen your single people constantly gushing about their love life is the last thing anybody wants to hear )
For some people spending this day alone is a CHOICE for others it’s a lack of the right person and the right time .., for a few its denial. For me it’s the first. A choice to be the best form of happiness alone till I feel the need of sharing my sparkle with someone else. No offence to the ones heads over heels over others. 
So this is my survival guide to this Valentine’s 

1. Ignore alll the gushing happy couples 
2. Who said you need others to buy you presents? Go ahead and buy a gift or better gifts. 
3. Go out with your real loves Your parents or your best friends ( DO NOT third wheel. You might commit homicide or suicide )
4. At night cosy up and realise how amazingly amazing you are with or without someone 
5. Lastly kiss your Harry Styles poster at the back of your room. Cause secretly we all wish we had him on Valentine’s Day as our Valentine right ? ( don’t worr your secret is safe with me ) TMI I’m a Niall girl 😝

Ps. After posting this my cousin said he doesn’t want to kiss Harry  so for the guys out there it’s Better if you keep your cooties to your self 😂😂😂
So what’s your plans this Valentine’s?

Love you all. 

Sparklinglyyours

-N

Email: sparklinglyyours@gmail.com

Twitter: @sparklyyours