Approval…And.. Acceptance

A mother wished her first born was a son

The dad wanted a ruler for his reign

The girl thought the hatred in their eyes was all a part of a game 

The winner claiming the throne to the terrain

The prize that she really wanted was to be daddy’s lil girl again 


We all are trying to fit into the puzzle called life. Constantly trying to be accepted …to get that special someone’s approval. We change who we really are to get accepted by society..friends and even our family. 

Now let me ask you something. The parents that gave birth to you should be able to accept you for who you are. The friends who claim to love you should definitely be able to respect your choices and decisions without asking any questions. The society that displays banners suggesting equality for all should be able to accept you for who you are. 

This world will constantly tell to change yourself to fit in. But the real gems are the ones who break their puzzle in their own significant way and showcase their inner sparkle. Do  NOT search for people’s approval because who are they to tell you to follow the rulebook. These rules of the society were made by people so they can be broken by people too. 

So my lil sparkles exceed your limits and realise that you don’t need to be a part of the game to be the winner. The throne was …is and always will be yours as long as you know where your kingdom lies 💕
Lots of love 

Sparklingyours

-N💕

Truth about Trust

TRUST a five letter word that can leave a mark on five generations straight. But if that’s a mark of loyalty,love and friendship or of hatred , disappointment and anger  that’s something to only you get to decide. 

I being one of those naive people who trusts people blindly or should I say trusted. This world already has so much hatred and hitler characters I refused to believe that the people around me were a part of this play. But this was too good to be true. 

I learned that in a world of competition it’s human nature to break some bonds to create a new more beneficial relationship. If being number one means breaking someone trust seems right, right?  You couldn’t be more wrong. Recently someone I knew got his heart broken by someone who completely didn’t deserve such a great person like him. I quote “I have stoped trusting everyone I meet.  ” that’s what he told me. 

Now I’m gonna tell you what I told him. This life is too short to waste yourself on someone who doesn’t deserve it but too long to spend it alone. And no matter how hard it is we have to start trusting people again cause…like oxygen surrounding yourself with people you trust is the only thing that won’t suffocate you. 

Sparkle yourself with hope and stop having expectations from anyone. Cause all though the world has a lot of glitter not all of it can be yours. If you stop having high expectations then when someone does you good, you will be surprised but if someone does wrong you ,it won’t be as heartbreaking. Don’t set expectations , (I know I told you to think twice before trusting) but trust me life will be a lot clearer. 

So who do you trust ? What your take on it  ? Did anyone break your sparkle? Let me know in the comments below and I will try my level best to help you. And you don’t have to be worried cause I don’t know you to judge you. Also leaving my email ID down for anyone who wants to talk without being uncomfortable. 

Sparklingly Yours 

-N
Email: sparklinglyyours@gmail.com

Twitter: @sparklyyours